Allow for overriding build_command

[zachahn]

Hello!

I'd like to rename my yarn build to yarn build:js because the build script is used by my deployment system. This PR makes this possible. I tried to keep the code change pretty small, but I moved the Tasks module into its own file so that I could write tests for it.

I considered allowing the install command to also be overridden, but I didn't think that would be too useful since it should only really get run once per application.

If this gets merged, I'm planning on updating my app's Rakefile to the following:

require_relative "config/application"

Rails.application.load_tasks

Jsbundling::Tasks.build_command = "yarn build:js"

[zachahn]

Tests are failing, but they seem unrelated to my change and only affect Rails main