feat: Register memory mapped files and raise when written to

[ritchie46]

It isn't perfect, but this will at least catch the most common case in python where people read memory mapped and write to the same file.

fixes #16119

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 98.64865% with 1 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 81.03%. Comparing base (8066952) to head (43af84a).
Report is 4 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
...olars-lazy/src/physical_plan/executors/scan/ipc.rs	75.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #16208 will improve performances by 29.2%

_{Comparing mmap (43af84a) with main (5b77f01)}

Summary

⚡ 1 improvements
✅ 34 untouched benchmarks

Benchmarks breakdown

	Benchmark	main	mmap	Change
⚡	test_filter2	2.8 ms	2.1 ms	+29.2%