[BUILD] Support to use different cmake package CONFIG of dependencies. #8558

Job	Run time
Bazel noexcept	22m 38s
Bazel nortti	20m 13s
Bazel asan config	11m 4s
Bazel	19m 26s
Bazel on MacOS	28m 11s
Bazel with async export	19m 53s
Bazel tsan config	19m 50s
Bazel valgrind	23m 32s
Bazel with external abseil	29m 23s
Benchmark	13m 29s
CMake test (with abseil)	9m 14s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, async)	17m 32s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	17m 24s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	22m 39s
CMake gcc 4.8 (with otlp exporter)	14m 50s
CMake gcc 4.8 (without otlp exporter)	7m 42s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, async)	12m 42s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, C++11, async)	11m 11s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, sync)	14m 14s
CMake install test (with abseil)	7m 10s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	33m 45s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	13m 49s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	7m 50s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	20m 42s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	21m 13s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	9m 15s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	12m 36s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	12m 36s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	6m 53s
Code coverage	14m 10s
Copyright	8s
DocFX check	50s
Format	18s
markdown-lint	16s
misspell	6s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 2s
CMake -> exporter proto	24m 8s
Bazel Windows	43m 18s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	12m 8s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	21m 22s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	17m 37s
	10h 16m 19s

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