[release-1.10] Upgrading otel and related packages

[mboersma]

What type of PR is this?

/kind cleanup

What this PR does / why we need it:

This is a manual cherry-pick of #3803.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Not strictly a bug fix, but updating otel can help some users integrate succesfully with CAPZ.

Release note:

NONE

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Patch coverage: 100.00% and no project coverage change.

Comparison is base (ae9574a) 54.11% compared to head (a9cba3d) 54.11%.
Report is 3 commits behind head on release-1.10.

Additional details and impacted files

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  Misses             8105     8105           
  Partials            547      547           

Files Changed	Coverage Δ
azure/services/managedclusters/spec.go	48.71% <100.00%> (ø)

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[nawazkh]

/lgtm

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Git tree hash: b03f226621f32bea8e8e8fb2c860cbc875103f60

[CecileRobertMichon]

/lgtm
/approve

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