Bump aiohttp to 3.10.9

[bdraco]

• wheels https://github.com/home-assistant/core/actions/runs/11185327118

Proposed change

https://github.com/aio-libs/aiohttp/releases/tag/v3.10.9

changelog: aio-libs/aiohttp@v3.10.8...v3.10.9

This is a technically breaking change, the default connect timeout is now 30s to fix a bug where the next ip would not be tried within the default timeout period of 150s since it would never move on to the next ip otherwise. I expect this will not be a problem but I wanted to point it out.

There is also a fix relevant to HA's default connector aio-libs/aiohttp#9368 (comment)

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