fix: curio: refactor curio graceful shutdown

[LexLuthr]

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The gracefulshutdown() has been refactored to ensure that all Posts complete before shutdown.
We no longer have a 1 hour hard timeout and as soon as all Post related tasks are finished, the node is terminated.

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