[21293] Fix destruction data-race on participant removal in intra-process (backport #5034)

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Description

This PR addresses a race issue happening in stressed intraprocess scenarios when EDP's writer intends to use the remote local reader pointer of an already removed participant. This happens because the participant hasn't received the other's one disposal yet (as it goes through transport).

Some ci flaky tests have already been identified to be related with this issue.

The proposed solution introduces a new state in the Readers LocalReaderViewStatus in which the reader will notify that it is inactive as soon as it is destroyed and noone is using it.
On the other side, the remote local writers using pointers to it, now holds a LocalReaderPointer which wraps the raw reader's pointer plus the view. An internal counter now accounts for the number of references.

Thanks @MiguelCompany for helping with the final's solution design.

Note: the test may be launched with --restest-until-fail 20 or so, in order to reproduce the issue. For a more frequent failure, review can launch the colcon test with the taskset -c 0,1 prefix to make the test to stress more and make it fail more frequently.

@Mergifyio backport 3.1.x 3.0.x 2.14.x 2.10.x

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #5034 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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Changes to be committed:
	new file:   src/cpp/rtps/reader/LocalReaderPointer.hpp
	new file:   src/cpp/utils/RefCountedPointer.hpp
	new file:   test/unittest/utils/RefCountedPointerTests.cpp

Unmerged paths:
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	both modified:   include/fastdds/rtps/writer/ReaderLocator.h
	both modified:   include/fastdds/rtps/writer/ReaderProxy.h
	both modified:   src/cpp/rtps/RTPSDomain.cpp
	both modified:   src/cpp/rtps/RTPSDomainImpl.hpp
	both modified:   src/cpp/rtps/participant/RTPSParticipantImpl.cpp
	both modified:   src/cpp/rtps/participant/RTPSParticipantImpl.h
	deleted by us:   src/cpp/rtps/reader/BaseReader.cpp
	deleted by us:   src/cpp/rtps/reader/BaseReader.hpp
	both modified:   src/cpp/rtps/writer/ReaderLocator.cpp
	both modified:   src/cpp/rtps/writer/StatefulWriter.cpp
	both modified:   src/cpp/rtps/writer/StatelessWriter.cpp
	both modified:   test/blackbox/common/DDSBlackboxTestsBasic.cpp
	both modified:   test/mock/rtps/ReaderLocator/fastdds/rtps/writer/ReaderLocator.h
	both modified:   test/unittest/utils/CMakeLists.txt

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