[GLUTEN-3732][VL] Use arrow result-returning variants FileWriter::Open API

[yangzhg]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Use arrow result-returning variants FileWriter::Open API instead deprecated ones.

(Fixes: #3732)

[github-actions]

#3732

[yangzhg]

@rui-mo @zhztheplayer I would greatly appreciate if you could take a moment to review the changes at your earliest convenience

[rui-mo]

@yangzhg Thanks. LGTM. We can merge it after CI passes.

[GlutenPerfBot]

===== Performance report for TPCH SF2000 with Velox backend, for reference only ====

query	log/native_3733_time.csv	log/native_master_11_30_2023_d2980b73a_time.csv	difference	percentage
q1	33.93	32.81	-1.111	96.72%
q2	24.93	26.03	1.100	104.41%
q3	37.65	37.62	-0.034	99.91%
q4	38.24	37.38	-0.868	97.73%
q5	72.69	72.32	-0.374	99.49%
q6	6.93	6.56	-0.372	94.63%
q7	84.13	86.62	2.487	102.96%
q8	85.37	87.07	1.702	101.99%
q9	124.50	126.83	2.333	101.87%
q10	43.62	47.00	3.379	107.75%
q11	20.13	20.00	-0.134	99.33%
q12	25.76	25.82	0.061	100.24%
q13	45.83	46.37	0.541	101.18%
q14	17.23	16.00	-1.231	92.86%
q15	27.11	27.70	0.595	102.19%
q16	15.47	15.45	-0.018	99.88%
q17	103.18	102.12	-1.059	98.97%
q18	150.15	150.61	0.456	100.30%
q19	13.16	12.85	-0.303	97.70%
q20	27.31	27.48	0.167	100.61%
q21	221.27	226.90	5.622	102.54%
q22	13.61	13.04	-0.574	95.78%
total	1232.22	1244.58	12.365	101.00%