[GLUTEN-4092][CH] Disable streaming aggregating before bugs fixed

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Fixes: #4092

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backends-clickhouse/src/test/scala/io/glutenproject/execution/GlutenClickHouseTPCHColumnarShuffleParquetAQESuite.scala

@@ -45,6 +45,9 @@ class GlutenClickHouseTPCHColumnarShuffleParquetAQESuite
       .set("spark.gluten.sql.columnar.backend.ch.use.v2", "false")
       .set("spark.sql.adaptive.enabled", "true")
       .set("spark.gluten.sql.columnar.backend.ch.shuffle.hash.algorithm", "sparkMurmurHash3_32")
+      .set(
+        "spark.gluten.sql.columnar.backend.ch.runtime_config.enable_streaming_aggregating",
+        "true")
   }
 
   override protected def createTPCHNotNullTables(): Unit = {

backends-clickhouse/src/test/scala/io/glutenproject/execution/metrics/GlutenClickHouseTPCHMetricsSuite.scala

@@ -47,6 +47,9 @@ class GlutenClickHouseTPCHMetricsSuite extends GlutenClickHouseTPCHAbstractSuite
       .set("spark.sql.shuffle.partitions", "1")
       .set("spark.sql.autoBroadcastJoinThreshold", "10MB")
       .set("spark.gluten.sql.columnar.backend.ch.use.v2", "false")
+      .set(
+        "spark.gluten.sql.columnar.backend.ch.runtime_config.enable_streaming_aggregating",
+        "true")
   }
 
   override protected def createTPCHNotNullTables(): Unit = {

cpp-ch/local-engine/Parser/AggregateRelParser.cpp

@@ -238,8 +238,8 @@ void AggregateRelParser::addMergingAggregatedStep()
     buildAggregateDescriptions(aggregate_descriptions);
     auto settings = getContext()->getSettingsRef();
     Aggregator::Params params(grouping_keys, aggregate_descriptions, false, settings.max_threads, settings.max_block_size);
-
-    if (settings.distributed_aggregation_memory_efficient)
+    bool enable_streaming_aggregating = getContext()->getConfigRef().getBool("enable_streaming_aggregating", false);
+    if (enable_streaming_aggregating)
     {
         auto merging_step = std::make_unique<GraceMergingAggregatedStep>(getContext(), plan->getCurrentDataStream(), params);
         steps.emplace_back(merging_step.get());
@@ -269,8 +269,9 @@ void AggregateRelParser::addAggregatingStep()
     AggregateDescriptions aggregate_descriptions;
     buildAggregateDescriptions(aggregate_descriptions);
     auto settings = getContext()->getSettingsRef();
+    bool enable_streaming_aggregating = getContext()->getConfigRef().getBool("enable_streaming_aggregating", false);
 
-    if (settings.distributed_aggregation_memory_efficient)
+    if (enable_streaming_aggregating)
     {
         // Disable spilling to disk.
         Aggregator::Params params(