[fix](tablet report) fix not add replicas when a backend re join the cluster after changing its ip or port

[yujun777]

Proposed changes

If a backend wants to change its ip or port, proceed as follows:

1. drop this backend force (alter system dropp backend old_ip:old_port);
2. change this backend's ip in be.conf;
3. restart this backend;
4. add this backend back (alter system add backend new_ip:new_port).

After adding back, this backend will report its existing tablets to fe, but the fe will found the tablet status is force redunant and delete the replicas on this backend.

This PR is to fix the problem above. It will add the replica back when the tablet is force redunant.

Further comments

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[yujun777]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.54 seconds
stream load tsv: 514 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 138 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 66 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 15 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 337K ops/s
storage size: 17162344311 Bytes

[dataroaring]

LGTM

[dataroaring]

what if adding back happens before fe detected the be is gone.

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[yujun777]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.16 seconds
stream load tsv: 515 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 138 MB/s
stream load json: 22 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 102 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.0 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 344K ops/s
storage size: 17162424216 Bytes