[2.0](dependencies)upgrade dependencies (#38671)

## Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

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fe/pom.xml

@@ -260,30 +260,31 @@ under the License.
         <log4j-1.2.version>2.18.0</log4j-1.2.version>
         <slf4j.version>2.0.6</slf4j.version>
         <metrics-core.version>4.0.2</metrics-core.version>
-        <netty-all.version>4.1.94.Final</netty-all.version>
+        <!--Netty 4.1.94 is not compatible with arrow flight.-->
+        <netty-all.version>4.1.104.Final</netty-all.version>
         <!--The dependence of transitive dependence cannot be ruled out, only Saving the nation through twisted ways.-->
         <netty-3-test.version>3.10.6.Final</netty-3-test.version>
         <objenesis.version>2.1</objenesis.version>
         <!-- NOTE: Using grpc-java whose version is newer than 1.34.0 will break the build on CentOS 6 due to the obsolete GLIBC -->
         <grpc-java.version>1.34.0</grpc-java.version>
-        <grpc.version>1.58.0</grpc.version>
-        <check.freamework.version>3.38.0</check.freamework.version>
+        <grpc.version>1.60.1</grpc.version>
+        <check.freamework.version>3.43.0</check.freamework.version>
         <protobuf.version>3.24.3</protobuf.version>
         <!-- we use protoc-jar-maven-plugin to generate protobuf generated code -->
         <!-- see https://repo.maven.apache.org/maven2/com/google/protobuf/protoc/ to get correct version -->
         <protoc.artifact.version>3.21.9</protoc.artifact.version>
         <protoc.artifact>com.google.protobuf:protoc:${protoc.artifact.version}</protoc.artifact>
         <grpc.java.artifact>io.grpc:protoc-gen-grpc-java:${grpc-java.version}</grpc.java.artifact>
         <protoparser.version>3.1.5</protoparser.version>
-        <snappy-java.version>1.1.10.1</snappy-java.version>
+        <snappy-java.version>1.1.10.5</snappy-java.version>
         <automaton.version>1.11-8</automaton.version>
         <generex.version>1.0.1</generex.version>
         <fabric8.kubernetes.version>6.7.2</fabric8.kubernetes.version>
         <logging-interceptor.version>4.7.2</logging-interceptor.version>
         <okhttp.version>4.9.3</okhttp.version>
         <okio.version>3.4.0</okio.version>
         <snakeyaml.version>2.0</snakeyaml.version>
-        <validation-api.version>1.1.0.Final</validation-api.version>
+        <validation-api.version>2.0.1.Final</validation-api.version>
         <zjsonpatch.version>0.2.3</zjsonpatch.version>
         <kafka-clients.version>3.4.0</kafka-clients.version>
         <oshi-core.version>6.4.5</oshi-core.version>
@@ -342,6 +343,7 @@ under the License.
         <vesoft.client.version>3.0.0</vesoft.client.version>
         <!--todo waiting release-->
         <quartz.version>2.3.2</quartz.version>
+        <aircompressor.version>0.27</aircompressor.version>
         <!-- paimon -->
         <paimon.version>0.7.0-incubating</paimon.version>
         <disruptor.version>3.4.4</disruptor.version>
@@ -417,7 +419,11 @@ under the License.
                 <artifactId>opentelemetry-sdk</artifactId>
                 <version>${opentelemetry.version}</version>
             </dependency>
-
+            <dependency>
+                <groupId>io.airlift</groupId>
+                <artifactId>aircompressor</artifactId>
+                <version>${aircompressor.version}</version>
+            </dependency>
             <dependency>
                 <groupId>io.opentelemetry</groupId>
                 <artifactId>opentelemetry-exporter-otlp</artifactId>