[fix](cloud) should do check before abort transaction (apache#40463)

When routine load task transaction is abort, it should do check before
abort transaction, otherwise, it may cause concurrent modifications to
the `routineLoadTaskInfoList`, which in the Java language may result in
elements in the list being null, leading to a loop throwing
NullPointerException during scheduling and making it impossible to
schedule routine load task to consume Kafka stream.

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/cloud/transaction/CloudGlobalTransactionMgr.java

@@ -988,6 +988,20 @@ public void abortTransaction(Long dbId, Long transactionId, String reason,
             TxnCommitAttachment txnCommitAttachment, List<Table> tableList) throws UserException {
         LOG.info("try to abort transaction, dbId:{}, transactionId:{}", dbId, transactionId);
 
+        if (txnCommitAttachment != null) {
+            if (txnCommitAttachment instanceof RLTaskTxnCommitAttachment) {
+                RLTaskTxnCommitAttachment rlTaskTxnCommitAttachment = (RLTaskTxnCommitAttachment) txnCommitAttachment;
+                TxnStateChangeCallback cb = callbackFactory.getCallback(rlTaskTxnCommitAttachment.getJobId());
+                if (cb != null) {
+                    // use a temporary transaction state to do before commit check,
+                    // what actually works is the transactionId
+                    TransactionState tmpTxnState = new TransactionState();
+                    tmpTxnState.setTransactionId(transactionId);
+                    cb.beforeAborted(tmpTxnState);
+                }
+            }
+        }
+
         AbortTxnRequest.Builder builder = AbortTxnRequest.newBuilder();
         builder.setDbId(dbId);
         builder.setTxnId(transactionId);