diff --git a/solara/lab/components/confirmation_dialog.py b/solara/lab/components/confirmation_dialog.py
index 1a24a66fd..6ba944535 100644
--- a/solara/lab/components/confirmation_dialog.py
+++ b/solara/lab/components/confirmation_dialog.py
@@ -40,7 +40,7 @@ def delete_user():
     @solara.component
     def Page():
         solara.Button(label="Delete user", on_click=lambda: open_delete_confirmation.set(True))
-        solara.lab.ConfirmationDialog(open_delete_confirmation, on_ok=delete_user, content="Are you sure you want to delete this user?")
+        solara.lab.ConfirmationDialog(open_delete_confirmation, ok="Ok, Delete", on_ok=delete_user, content="Are you sure you want to delete this user?")
     ```
 
     ## Arguments
@@ -92,28 +92,29 @@ def on_v_model(value):
         persistent=persistent,
         max_width=max_width,
     ):
-        with solara.Card(title=title):
-            if isinstance(content, str):
-                solara.Markdown(content)
-            else:
-                solara.display(content)
-            if children:
-                solara.display(*children)
-            with solara.CardActions():
-
-                if isinstance(ok, str):
-                    solara.Button(label=ok, on_click=perform_ok)
+        with solara.v.Card():
+            solara.v.Toolbar(color="primary", dark=True, children=[title])
+            with solara.v.CardText(class_="pa-4"):
+                if isinstance(content, str):
+                    solara.Text(content)
                 else:
-                    # the user may have passed in on_click already
-                    user_on_click_ok = ok.kwargs.get("on_click")
-                    # override or add our own on_click handler
-                    ok.kwargs = {**ok.kwargs, "on_click": perform_ok}
-                    solara.display(ok)
-
-                # similar as ok
+                    solara.display(content)
+                if children:
+                    solara.display(*children)
+            with solara.v.CardActions(class_="justify-end"):
                 if isinstance(cancel, str):
-                    solara.Button(label=cancel, on_click=perform_cancel)
+                    solara.Button(label=cancel, on_click=perform_cancel, outlined=True, color="primary")
                 else:
+                    # the user may have passed in on_click already
                     user_on_click_cancel = cancel.kwargs.get("on_click")
+                    # override or add our own on_click handler
                     cancel.kwargs = {**cancel.kwargs, "on_click": perform_cancel}
                     solara.display(cancel)
+
+                # similar as cancel
+                if isinstance(ok, str):
+                    solara.Button(label=ok, on_click=perform_ok, color="primary")
+                else:
+                    user_on_click_ok = ok.kwargs.get("on_click")
+                    ok.kwargs = {**ok.kwargs, "on_click": perform_ok}
+                    solara.display(ok)
diff --git a/solara/website/pages/api/confirmation_dialog.py b/solara/website/pages/api/confirmation_dialog.py
index 20bd4b81f..18e03ef24 100644
--- a/solara/website/pages/api/confirmation_dialog.py
+++ b/solara/website/pages/api/confirmation_dialog.py
@@ -47,7 +47,13 @@ def Page():
         style="max-width: 400px;",
         disabled=not users.value,
     )
-    ConfirmationDialog(is_open, on_ok=delete_user, title="Delete user", content=f"Are you sure you want to delete user **{user_to_be_deleted.value}**?")
+    with ConfirmationDialog(
+        is_open,
+        on_ok=delete_user,
+        ok="Ok, Delete",
+        title="Delete user",
+    ):
+        solara.Markdown(f"Are you sure you want to delete user **{user_to_be_deleted.value}**?")
 
 
 __doc__ += apidoc(solara.lab.components.confirmation_dialog.ConfirmationDialog.f)  # type: ignore
diff --git a/tests/unit/confirmation_dialog_test.py b/tests/unit/confirmation_dialog_test.py
index 708510b95..895dd4446 100644
--- a/tests/unit/confirmation_dialog_test.py
+++ b/tests/unit/confirmation_dialog_test.py
@@ -14,7 +14,7 @@ def test_confirmation_dialog_ok():
     _, rc = solara.render(el, handle_error=False)
     buttons = rc.find(vw.Btn)
     assert len(buttons) == 2
-    buttons[0].widget.click()
+    buttons[1].widget.click()
     assert on_ok.call_count == 1  # was OK button clicked?
     assert on_open.call_count == 1  # always triggered
     assert not is_open.value  # is dialog closed?
@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ def test_confirmation_dialog_cancel():
     _, rc = solara.render(el, handle_error=False)
     buttons = rc.find(vw.Btn)
     assert len(buttons) == 2
-    buttons[1].widget.click()
+    buttons[0].widget.click()
     assert on_ok.call_count == 0  # on_ok action should not have been executed
     assert on_open.call_count == 1  # always triggered
     assert not is_open.value  # is dialog closed?
@@ -59,9 +59,9 @@ def test_confirmation_dialog_custom_button_no_onclick():
     _, rc = solara.render(el, handle_error=False)
     buttons = rc.find(vw.Btn)
     assert len(buttons) == 2
-    assert buttons[0].widget.children == ["Not OK"]
-    assert buttons[1].widget.children == ["Cancel"]
-    buttons[0].widget.click()
+    assert buttons[0].widget.children == ["Cancel"]
+    assert buttons[1].widget.children == ["Not OK"]
+    buttons[1].widget.click()
     assert on_ok.call_count == 1  # should still be called
 
 
@@ -87,11 +87,11 @@ def on_click_cancel():
     _, rc = solara.render(el, handle_error=False)
     buttons = rc.find(vw.Btn)
     assert len(buttons) == 2
-    assert buttons[0].widget.children == ["Not OK"]
-    assert buttons[1].widget.children == ["Not Cancel"]
-    buttons[0].widget.click()
+    assert buttons[1].widget.children == ["Not OK"]
+    assert buttons[0].widget.children == ["Not Cancel"]
+    buttons[1].widget.click()
     assert values == ["on_click_ok", "on_ok"]  # assert on_ok and on_click were both called, in that order
     values.clear()
     # now the same for cancel
-    buttons[1].widget.click()
+    buttons[0].widget.click()
     assert values == ["on_click_cancel", "on_cancel"]