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Mostly by saying NO. + +- No streaming subscriptions. No Disney+, no Netflix. I rarely watch TV anyway. +- No gym memberships. Just run in the park. +- No Instagram or TikTok, but part of that is getting older. +- My shoes are 6 years old. So is my wardrobe. +- No meetings if possible. I'm the guy who sits at his desk for 8 hours straight, only getting up for bathroom breaks twice. +- No property; I'm a happy tenant. +- No commute; I work remotely. + +Great home cinema setup you have there. +Thanks for inviting me over! +At home, I don't even have external speakers. + +You're planning a trip to the Bahamas? Enjoy! Send me a photo. + +Regarding technology, that means: + +- Even though I'm a programmer, I only have a single screen. +- I evaluate tools, but I keep the number of tools limited. +- My editor doesn't have a debugger. +- No Notion or Obsidian if a text file + git is enough. +- I limit the number of browser tabs with an [extension](https://github.com/kanru/max-tabs). + +## Simple Doesn't Mean Minimalistic + +My goal is not to have as few possessions as possible -- I own a lot -- but to lead a simple life. +I'll happily buy things if they make my life simpler. +The last big life improvements were a robot vacuum cleaner (four years ago) and an automated cat litter box (two years ago). +If I decide to buy something, I make sure it's the absolute best I can afford. +(My rule is actually "don't buy crap".) +For example, I spent a ridiculous amount on the best laptop I could buy. +It's my daily driver that I spend most of my time with, so it needs to be an absolute workhorse. +My work is also compute-intensive, so I saw the purchase as justified. + +I always pay the price in full. No lease, no monthly payments. +I have to use services for work, but I prefer monthly payments over yearly subscriptions, even if they are 30% more expensive. +The fact that I can cancel at any time is more important to me. + +I know that when I buy something, it demands my attention. +Maintenance is not fun. +Even though I like the *idea* of owning something, I probably don't truly own it. +That makes me the worst consumer possible. +I keep things in my Amazon basket *forever*. From time to time I look at the items, and when I enjoy seeing them in my basket... I keep them there. +The rest, I just delete. +This way, I get the "feeling" of owning things without spending any money. + +## Simple Doesn't Mean Convenient + +To live with such a person is not easy. +We have regular discussions about "investing" money into things that I'm skeptical about. +It takes me ages to reach a conclusion. +Vacation planning is definitely one of my weaknesses. +I am very well aware that my approach is not perfect at times. +I am okay with making these sacrifices for protecting my time and therefore my happiness. + +Recently, I got a few emails from people telling me that my newsletter subscription is broken. +I'm aware of that. My newsletter provider shut down. +I won't fix it. +It turns out that people find other ways to follow me; either on Mastodon or via RSS. +I also don't have a comment section -- Reddit or HN work just fine. +Even though there are a few folks on my old newsletter list, I never got around to sending many emails. +I don't particularly enjoy writing a newsletter, so it might be best that it finally broke. +I will probably remove the signup box. +It would be nice to have it "just work", but the next best thing is to not have it at all. + +## Simple Means Letting Go + +Perhaps another way to explain it is the midwit theme: + +{{ figure(src="midwit.jpg") }} + +I try to stay on the left side of this curve as much as I can. + +I'm aware that there are "smarter" ways to do things, but I don't want to dedicate time to learning about them. +I only dedicate time to things that matter to me and that I want to go really deep into. + +The meme shows simple approaches on both ends, with a complicated phase in between. +Getting to the right side of the spectrum takes lots of effort, and I've only made that journey a few times in my life. +For the rest, knowing there's an awkward complicated phase in between keeps me happily on the simple side. +It's fine. + +## Simple Means Focused + +Greatness comes from dedicating time to the things that matter. +The most productive people I know are focused. +Yes, there's a creative process and they allow themselves to be creative, but they do so in a very constrained environment: their office. +While others chase trends, they do the thing they're always doing. +They put in the hours. + +It's way easier to be focused when life is simple. +When there's no room for distractions and complexity. +I find that constraints help as well. +Technology is one major source of distraction. +Some of the best stories were written with a typewriter. +In itself, it's a very limited environment, but it takes away all the distractions and lets you focus on the task at hand. +I find that inspiring, liberating. +That's why I like constraints. +When I give presentations, I wonder what I'd write if I could only have 5 slides with 5 words each, +or I could only use two colors, or only show images. +It keeps me focused on the message. +It's simple. +Simple is beautiful. +Simple makes me happy. \ No newline at end of file diff --git a/content/2024/be-simple/raw/midwit.png b/content/2024/be-simple/raw/midwit.png new file mode 100644 index 00000000..ae223104 Binary files /dev/null and b/content/2024/be-simple/raw/midwit.png differ diff --git a/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.avif b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.avif new file mode 100644 index 00000000..925e7f83 Binary files /dev/null and b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.avif differ diff --git a/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.jpg b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.jpg new file mode 100644 index 00000000..c0440e14 Binary files /dev/null and b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.jpg differ diff --git a/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.png b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.png new file mode 100644 index 00000000..f6b92092 Binary files /dev/null and b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.png differ diff --git a/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.webp b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.webp new file mode 100644 index 00000000..a336e22b Binary files /dev/null and b/static/2024/be-simple/midwit.webp differ