[Bug]: [date 9.20]tke regression: tpch 1T Q18 caused cn oom

[heni02]

Is there an existing issue for the same bug?

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Branch Name

main

Commit ID

06cd080

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Actual Behavior

job:https://github.com/matrixorigin/mo-nightly-regression/actions/runs/10961185574/job/30439548651

oom前 2024-09-21 01:02:17 heap:
CN_38623834-6239-6461-3033-393364333139_heap_01921062-67d7-7cc9-9ade-58663ad1d455.gz
oom前 2024-09-21 01:02:47 heap：
CN_38623834-6239-6461-3033-393364333139_heap_01921062-dd07-78d1-b549-7cd73f76aadf.gz

oom前 2024-09-21 01:02:18 goroutine：
CN_38623834-6239-6461-3033-393364333139_goroutine_01921062-695c-766e-af78-592d090e76d2.gz
oomq前2024-09-21 01:02:47 goroutine：
CN_38623834-6239-6461-3033-393364333139_goroutine_01921062-de09-7986-add0-62dfaf3352fa.gz

grafana profile:
https://grafana.ci.matrixorigin.cn/explore?panes=%7B%22B_U%22:%7B%22datasource%22:%22pyroscope%22,%22queries%22:%5B%7B%22groupBy%22:%5B%5D,%22labelSelector%22:%22%7Bnamespace%3D%5C%22mo-main-nightly-06cd080dd-20240920%5C%22,pod%3D%5C%22nightly-regression-dis-tp-cn-dkh87%5C%22%7D%22,%22queryType%22:%22both%22,%22refId%22:%22A%22,%22profileTypeId%22:%22memory:alloc_objects:count:space:bytes%22,%22datasource%22:%7B%22type%22:%22grafana-pyroscope-datasource%22,%22uid%22:%22pyroscope%22%7D%7D%5D,%22range%22:%7B%22from%22:%221726851710000%22,%22to%22:%221726851787000%22%7D%7D%7D&schemaVersion=1&orgId=1

Expected Behavior

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Steps to Reproduce

tke tpch 1T 3cn test

Additional information

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[badboynt1]

已经通过二分，确定是#18852 这个pr引入。
先revert掉再慢慢找原因。