Better error message if trying to build on 3.12

[Carreau]

Some dependencies are not yet available on 3.12,
the error message are just the pip can't find the right version, maybe we could find a way to fail earlier by marking the python version to be <=3.12 in pyproject.toml ?

List of upstream issues to have wheels:

• Wheels for Python 3.12 grantjenks/py-tree-sitter-languages#30
• fix: 3.12 removed distutils, add fallback to setuptools tree-sitter/py-tree-sitter#161
• chore: update cython, cibuildwheels, allowing CPython 3.12 grantjenks/py-tree-sitter-languages#28