Confusion over all Java flags

[Fleepe]

What should I start with... I'm not a programmer and therefore I don't know what this or that flag does. I've searched a bit on the internet for minecraft launch options and Everywhere give slightly different information about it. I have 4 java flags lists. Some of the slags I understand from their descriptions on Github and other similar sites, but there is absolutely no clear information about others, so I ask for your help. I can intuitively make one list consisting of these four lists, but it’s better to ask help people who understand at least a little more than me in this matter. I am using Adoptium Java 17 and Java 8. Here are those lists:

My own list of flags:
-XX:+UnlockExperimentalVMOptions -XX:+UseG1GC -XX:+ParallelRefProcEnabled -XX:MaxGCPauseMillis=100 -XX:+UnlockDiagnosticVMOptions -XX:+DisableExplicitGC -XX:+AlwaysPreTouch -XX:G1NewSizePercent=30 -XX:G1MaxNewSizePercent=40 -XX:G1HeapRegionSize=8M -XX:G1ReservePercent=20 -XX:G1HeapWastePercent=5 -XX:G1MixedGCCountTarget=4 -XX:InitiatingHeapOccupancyPercent=15 -XX:G1MixedGCLiveThresholdPercent=90 -XX:G1RSetUpdatingPauseTimePercent=5 -XX:SurvivorRatio=32 -XX:+PerfDisableSharedMem -XX:MaxTenuringThreshold=1 -XX:UseAVX=3 -XX:-UseBiasedLocking -XX:SoftRefLRUPolicyMSPerMB=2000 -XX:+EagerXrunInit -XX:+UseNewLongLShift -XX:+UseXmmI2D -XX:+UseXmmI2F -XX:+OptoScheduling -XX:+OptoBundling -XX:+UseFastUnorderedTimeStamps -XX:UseSSE=4 -XX:+UseAES -XX:+UseAESIntrinsics -Xverify:none -XX:TargetSurvivorRatio=50

Flags from the etil2jz repository (github.com/etil2jz/etil-minecraft-flags):
-XX:+UseG1GC -XX:+ParallelRefProcEnabled -XX:MaxGCPauseMillis=100 -XX:+UnlockExperimentalVMOptions -XX:+UnlockDiagnosticVMOptions -XX:+DisableExplicitGC -XX:+AlwaysPreTouch -XX:G1NewSizePercent=30 -XX:G1MaxNewSizePercent=40 -XX:G1HeapRegionSize=8M -XX:G1ReservePercent=20 -XX:G1HeapWastePercent=5 -XX:G1MixedGCCountTarget=4 -XX:InitiatingHeapOccupancyPercent=15 -XX:G1MixedGCLiveThresholdPercent=90 -XX:G1RSetUpdatingPauseTimePercent=5 -XX:SurvivorRatio=32 -XX:+PerfDisableSharedMem -XX:MaxTenuringThreshold=1 -XX:-UseBiasedLocking -XX:UseAVX=3 -XX:+UseFastUnorderedTimeStamps -XX:+UseAES -XX:+UseAESIntrinsics -XX:UseSSE=4 -XX:+UseFMA -XX:AllocatePrefetchStyle=1 -XX:+UseLoopPredicate -XX:+RangeCheckElimination -XX:+EliminateLocks -XX:+DoEscapeAnalysis -XX:+UseCodeCacheFlushing -XX:+SegmentedCodeCache -XX:+UseFastJNIAccessors -XX:+OptimizeStringConcat -XX:+UseCompressedOops -XX:+UseThreadPriorities -XX:+OmitStackTraceInFastThrow -XX:+TrustFinalNonStaticFields -XX:ThreadPriorityPolicy=1 -XX:+UseInlineCaches -XX:+RewriteBytecodes -XX:+RewriteFrequentPairs -XX:+UseNUMA -XX:-DontCompileHugeMethods -XX:+UseFPUForSpilling -XX:+UseFastStosb -XX:+UseNewLongLShift -XX:+UseVectorCmov -XX:+UseXMMForArrayCopy -XX:+UseXmmI2D -XX:+UseXmmI2F -XX:+UseXmmLoadAndClearUpper -XX:+UseXmmRegToRegMoveAll -Dfile.encoding=UTF-8 -Xlog:async -Djava.security.egd=file:/dev/urandom -add-modules jdk.incubator.vector

Flags from your repository:
-XX:+UnlockExperimentalVMOptions -XX:+UnlockDiagnosticVMOptions -XX:+AlwaysPreTouch -XX:+DisableExplicitGC -XX:+UseNUMA -XX:NmethodSweepActivity=1 -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=400M -XX:NonNMethodCodeHeapSize=12M -XX:ProfiledCodeHeapSize=194M -XX:NonProfiledCodeHeapSize=194M -XX:-DontCompileHugeMethods -XX:MaxNodeLimit=240000 -XX:NodeLimitFudgeFactor=8000 -XX:+UseVectorCmov -XX:+PerfDisableSharedMem -XX:+UseFastUnorderedTimeStamps -XX:+UseCriticalJavaThreadPriority -XX:ThreadPriorityPolicy=1 -XX:AllocatePrefetchStyle=3 -XX:+UseG1GC -XX:MaxGCPauseMillis=37 -XX:G1HeapRegionSize=16M -XX:G1NewSizePercent=23 -XX:G1ReservePercent=20 -XX:SurvivorRatio=32 -XX:G1MixedGCCountTarget=3 -XX:G1HeapWastePercent=20 -XX:InitiatingHeapOccupancyPercent=10 -XX:G1RSetUpdatingPauseTimePercent=0 -XX:MaxTenuringThreshold=1 -XX:G1SATBBufferEnqueueingThresholdPercent=30 -XX:G1ConcMarkStepDurationMillis=5.0 -XX:G1ConcRSHotCardLimit=16 -XX:G1ConcRefinementServiceIntervalMillis=150 -XX:GCTimeRatio=99 -XX:+UseLargePages -XX:LargePageSizeInBytes=2m

Flags from the bukkit forum:
-XX:+UseG1GC -XX:+ParallelRefProcEnabled -XX:MaxGCPauseMillis=100 -XX:+UnlockExperimentalVMOptions -XX:+UnlockDiagnosticVMOptions -XX:+DisableExplicitGC -XX:+AlwaysPreTouch -XX:G1NewSizePercent=30 -XX:G1MaxNewSizePercent=40 -XX:G1HeapRegionSize=8M -XX:G1ReservePercent=20 -XX:G1HeapWastePercent=5 -XX:G1MixedGCCountTarget=4 -XX:InitiatingHeapOccupancyPercent=15 -XX:G1MixedGCLiveThresholdPercent=90 -XX:G1RSetUpdatingPauseTimePercent=5 -XX:SurvivorRatio=32 -XX:+PerfDisableSharedMem -XX:MaxTenuringThreshold=1 -XX:-UseBiasedLocking -XX:+EnableJVMCIProduct -XX:+UseJVMCICompiler -XX:+EagerJVMCI -XX:UseAVX=3 -XX:+UseFastUnorderedTimeStamps -XX:+UseAES -XX:+UseAESIntrinsics -XX:UseSSE=4 -XX:AllocatePrefetchStyle=1 -XX:+UseLoopPredicate -XX:+RangeCheckElimination -XX:+EliminateLocks -XX:+DoEscapeAnalysis -XX:+UseCodeCacheFlushing -XX:+UseFastJNIAccessors -XX:+OptimizeStringConcat -XX:+UseCompressedOops -XX:+UseThreadPriorities -XX:+OmitStackTraceInFastThrow -XX:+TrustFinalNonStaticFields -XX:ThreadPriorityPolicy=1 -XX:+UseInlineCaches -XX:+RewriteBytecodes -XX:+RewriteFrequentPairs -XX:+UseNUMA -XX:-DontCompileHugeMethods -XX:+UseCMoveUnconditionally -XX:+UseFPUForSpilling -XX:+UseNewLongLShift -XX:+UseVectorCmov -XX:+UseXMMForArrayCopy -XX:+UseXmmI2D -XX:+UseXmmI2F -XX:+UseXmmLoadAndClearUpper -XX:+UseXmmRegToRegMoveAll -Dfile.encoding=UTF-8 -Djdk.nio.maxCachedBufferSize=262144 -Dgraal.TuneInlinerExploration=1 -Dgraal.CompilerConfiguration=enterprise -Dgraal.UsePriorityInlining=true -Dgraal.Vectorization=true -Dgraal.OptDuplication=true -Dgraal.DetectInvertedLoopsAsCounted=true -Dgraal.LoopInversion=true -Dgraal.VectorizeHashes=true -Dgraal.EnterprisePartialUnroll=true -Dgraal.VectorizeSIMD=true -Dgraal.StripMineNonCountedLoops=true -Dgraal.SpeculativeGuardMovement=true -Dgraal.InfeasiblePathCorrelation=true -Dlog4j2.formatMsgNoLookups=true -Dcom.sun.jndi.ldap.object.trustURLCodebase=false —add-modules jdk.incubator.vector

And here is the original file that I compiled with the differences between the lists:
Lists.docx

Please help me come up with the perfect, or at least a good list of flags from these lists, as I'm trying to squeeze the maximum amount of fps out of minecraft. Or explain what each of the flags means.