feat: support sni and skipverify option for etcd tls

[druggo]

Why submit this pull request?

• Bugfix
• New feature provided
• Improve performance
• Backport patches

What changes will this PR take into?

add two option for etcd tls connection:

• sni: the servername of the etcd server certificate
• skipverify: skip etcd server certificate verify

Related issues

resolve #2808 #2815

Checklist:

• Did you explain what problem does this PR solve? Or what new features have been added?
• Have you added corresponding test cases?
• Have you modified the corresponding document?
• Is this PR backward compatible? If it is not backward compatible, please discuss on the mailing list first

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #2850 (3ddb44f) into master (e8bc9b9) will decrease coverage by 14.55%.
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