Destroy does not preserve the selected value

[tagliala]

Describe the bug
destroy does not respect selected value. This causes issues when using with libraries like Turbo and Stimulus, where you want to destroy() when leaving the page or disconnecting the controller

To Reproduce
Steps to reproduce the behavior:

1. Go to https://jsfiddle.net/tagliala/yetk9sgh/3/
2. Click on the page to invoke destroy

Expected behavior
Option 3 (selected) selected

Screenshots
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Desktop (please complete the following information):

• OS: macOS
• Browser Chrome, Firefox, Safari
• Version 108, 108, 16.2

Smartphone (please complete the following information):

• Device: iPhone 12
• OS: iOS 16.2
• Browser Safari
• Version 16.2

Additional context
Related to #1055

As a workaround for simple inputs, I'm using this in the disconnect() controller

  disconnect () {
    // FIXME: workaround for Choices-js/Choices#1088
    const selectedValues = this.choices._currentState.items.map((item) => item.value)

    this.choices.destroy()

    selectedValues.forEach((selectedValue) => {
      const option = this.choicesTarget.querySelector(`option[value="${selectedValue}"]`)
      if (!option) { return }

      option.setAttribute('selected', 'selected')
    })
  }

[creativetags]

I've run into this problem too. Would be great to have a way to destroy() and keep selected values.